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Men’s Washable Incontinence Boxer Briefs

Men’s Washable Incontinence Boxer Briefs

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✔️Live confidently without the fear of leaks

✔️Wake up dry, rested, and worry-free

✔️Soft, secure comfort that restores your dignity

🎋High-tech bamboo fabric

We use an ultra-breathable bamboo fibre fabric that is antibacterial and hypoallergenic for optimal comfort

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4-Pack / Mixed Color 1
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4-Pack /Navy blue
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MEN’S UNDERWEAR SIZE CHART
Size Hip (cm) Hip (inches)
S 68 – 74 26 – 29
M 76 – 86 30 – 34
L 91 – 96 35 – 38
XL 97 – 104 38 – 41
2XL 106 – 112 41 – 45
3XL 114 – 120 45 – 47
4XL 122 – 128 48 – 50
5XL 130 – 136 51 – 53
6XL 138 – 144 54 – 56
7XL 146 – 152 57 – 60
8XL 154 – 160 61 – 63
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What Size Should I Order?

  • Measure your waist where you wear the waistband (snug, not tight).
  • Between sizes? Size up for comfort—especially for overnight use.
  • Still unsure? Tap Size Guide next to the size selector (waist is the key metric).

How Many Pairs Should I Start With?

  • Most customers start with 6-Pack for a simple weekly rotation-wear, wash, repeat.
  • 6-Pack ships FREE worldwide — Most Popular.
  • Tip: Keep 1 spare in your bag or car for peace of mind.

Wrong Size? Easy Exchange

  • Ordered the wrong size? We’ll help you swap to the right fit.
  • Fast, simple exchange process—no hassle.
  • Contact us anytime: support@oenko.com

Product Details

  • AbsorbencyUp to 300 mL (≈10.1 fl oz)
  • DiscreetLooks like regular boxer briefs
  • CoverageExtended inner-thigh coverage
  • Dry feelMoisture-wicking liner
  • MaterialOEKO-TEX® STANDARD 100 certified cotton
  • Odor ControlOdor-resistant
  • CareMachine washable
  • ShippingDiscreet shipping

Materials & Sensitive Skin

  • Made with high-quality cotton using OEKO-TEX® STANDARD 100 certified materials (tested for harmful substances).
  • Soft, breathable feel for everyday comfort.
  • For best comfort: wash before first wear and use a gentle detergent.

Wash & Care

  • Rinse in cold water first (recommended).
  • Machine wash cold or warm with mild detergent.
  • Avoid fabric softener & bleach to protect absorbency and performance.
  • Air-dry or tumble dry low.
Men’s Washable Incontinence Boxer Briefs

Men’s Washable Incontinence Boxer Briefs

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Regular price $59.99 Sale price
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    Our Absorbency: Simply Unmatched

    No one matches our absorbency capacity. We’ve spent years developing a high-tech fabric that combines maximum absorption with ultra-fast drying — delivering unmatched protection and comfort, all day long.

    Regain Control with Neslemy

    95%

    of men said Neslemy helped them stay dry and leak-free for up to12 hoursduring daily activity.

    98%

    reportedbetter sleepandreduced anxietyat night after just one week of switching from pads.

    96%

    experienceda boost in confidencewhen going out in public, socializing, or attending events.

    After 18 months of design testing and real-world trials, we created Neslemy ultra-absorbent, reusable boxer briefs that help men manage leaks discreetly and confidently.

    With real feedback from hundreds of users, the results speak for themselves:

    Why Thousands Are Switching to Neslemy™

    Smart design meets real comfort. Here’s what makes Neslemy different.

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    12-Hour Leak Protection

    Stay confidently dry all day or night with built-in multi-layer absorbency designed toholdup to 300mL (10.14 oz)without irritation or bulk.

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    Reusable & Eco-Friendly

    Save money and reduce waste. Neslemy briefs aremachine-washable, long-lasting, and a better alternative to disposable pads.

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    Odor-Resistant Technology

    Advancedanti-odor layersneutralize unwanted smells, keeping you feeling fresh even after hours of wear.

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    Feels Like Regular Underwear

    Soft, breathable fabric with a supportive stretch fit.No rustling, no diaper-feel,just the comfort of your favorite boxer briefs.

    Coverage Where Leaks Actually Happen

    Extended Protection

    • Through the Crotch & Toward the Back: Provides added coverage to help prevent leaks in critical areas.

    Inner-Thigh Leak Guards

    • Coverage extends into the thigh area to reduce side leaks, offering security as you move.

    Front-To-Back Core Coverage

    • A wider absorbent zone where you need it most, providing dependable everyday backup.

    Discreet, Everyday Fit

    • Looks and feels like regular boxer briefs—comfortable, quiet, and easy to wear.

    Much more elegant protection

    Disposable pads may work, but they are bulky, uncomfortable, and let’s be honest — they do not do much for your confidence. On top of that, they are made from synthetic materials and chemicals that can irritate your skin.
    These boxer briefs offer the same level of protection against leaks, without any of the downsides. No chemicals. No plastic feel. Just ultra-soft bamboo fabric that looks and feels like real underwear. Stay dry, stay confident — no one needs to know.

    Hydrophobic technology

    The secret behind these boxer briefs lies in their innovative bamboo fabric, specially engineered to be fully hydrophobic. This advanced technology blocks liquid from passing through the material, ensuring leaks never reach your clothes. Soft, breathable, and gentle on the skin, the fabric was developed over years of research to deliver invisible protection—without sacrificing comfort or style.

    • Cotton + Spandex Comfort

      Soft, stretchy, and breathable for all-day wear.

    • Breathable, Everyday Feel

      Feels like regular boxer briefs and stays easy to wear.

    • Discreet Under Clothing

      Clean lines for a low-profile look under pants.

    • Reusable & Machine Washable

      Wash and rewear for simple rotation and better long-term value.

      Frequently Asked Questions

      Will it feel bulky or like a diaper?

      No—these are designed to look and feel like everyday boxer briefs, with protection built in where it counts.

      How should the fit feel?

      Snug and supportive is best for coverage and comfort. If you’re between sizes, follow your usual waist size and check the size chart.

      Is it discreet under clothing?

      Yes—the profile is designed to stay low-bulk and smooth, so it doesn’t show like bulky disposable options.

      What level of leaks is this for?

      Best for light-to-moderate leaks and everyday backup. Capacity is up to300 mL / 10 oz, but performance varies by body and activity.

      Can I pair it with a small guard or pad?

      Yes—many customers wear a small guard for extra confidence, and use the underwear as a comfortable backup layer.

      Does it help with side leaks?

      Yes—coverage extends through the crotch and into the thigh area to help reduce side-leak moments.

      How do I wash and dry it?

      Machine wash cold. Air dry for best results, or tumble low—high heat can reduce the life of performance layers.

      Does it take longer to dry than regular underwear?

      It can, because of the multi-layer absorbent zone. Most customers prefer starting with 3+ pairs for an easy wash-and-wear rotation.

      What Our Customers Are Saying
      Trusted by real customers
      4.9
      Based on 768 reviews
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      743
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      Ethan M. John L. Clarence K. John T. Olivier L. Gary Newman Hugo R. Anonymous Donald Kramer Anonymous Nury Aguilar Henry Perez Jill M. Laurent V. Larry T. Michael Anderson Michael Anderson Steve H. Tyler Q. Gary Anthony W. Hurst, Sr. Karen D
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      Ethan M. ✔ Verified
      2025-12-14
      Game changer
      No more stress when going out. These really boost my confidence!
      Ethan M.
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      John L. ✔ Verified
      2025-12-18
      Better than expected
      I was hesitant at first, but these work better than I imagined!
      John L.
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      Clarence K. ✔ Verified
      2026-12-21
      Life-Changing! A Must-Have for Any Man!
      I’ve been dealing with incontinence for a while and tried everything from pads to diapers, but nothing worked as well as these boxers. They are incredibly comfortable, absorbent, and discreet. I don’t have to worry about leaks anymore!
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      John T. ✔ Verified
      2026-12-22
      So much better than disposables
      I save money and feel more comfortable compared to pads. Great product!
      John T.
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      Olivier L. ✔ Verified
      2026-12-28
      Highly recommended
      If you have minor leaks, this is the best solution out there.
      Olivier L.
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      peter williams ✔ Verified
      2026-12-28
      Neslemy incontinence underwear
      Good fit , Comfortable , Super Absorbent and Good Quality. I'm happy
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      Gary Newman ✔ Verified
      2025-12-29
      Speedy delivery (and all intact)
      Speedy delivery (and all intact), perfect size fit and it’sa wonder no one has thought of this design before. Very happy with your product.
      Gary Newman
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      Hugo R. ✔ Verified
      2025-12-30
      Perfect for active days
      I wear them when exercising, and they hold up great!
      Hugo R.
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      Anonymous ✔ Verified
      2025-12-30
      Keeping dry
      Excellent product Well made and comfortable
      Anonymous
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      Ann Sandercock ✔ Verified
      2025-12-30
      Boxer shorts
      Husband really likes his new absorbent boxer as he recently had prostrate surgery and they are excellent for retraining his bladder. Wash and dry really well. So much nicer than pads.
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      richard saville ✔ Verified
      2025-12-30
      Tried the other brands but these are more
      Tried the other brands but these are more comfortable to wear and work well very happy will purchase more
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      Donald Kramer ✔ Verified
      2025-12-30
      It does what it says it does - non leak.
      I have tried a number of different brands and have found Neslemy the only brand to work for me.
      Donald Kramer
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      jeffrey benyon ✔ Verified
      2026-01-01
      Great fit and perfect absorbency
      Great fit and perfect absorbency. Best aI have tried by far.
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      Anonymous ✔ Verified
      2026-01-01
      They are so good and comfortable in bed at night
      They are so good and comfortable in bed at night. They takeaway the embarrassment of waking up with damp underwear and my partner thinks look quite good, so much better than pads you can buy.
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      Anonymous ✔ Verified
      2026-01-01
      Very good
      Very good..especially for nights
      Anonymous
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      Anonymous ✔ Verified
      2026-01-02
      Very pleased with these gruts
      Very pleased with these gruts. Nice fit, comfortable and no leaks
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      johannes ✔ Verified
      2026-01-02
      Great fit
      Great fit, very comfortable
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      Nury Aguilar ✔ Verified
      2026-01-02
      They absorb super well without feeling heavy or hot, and they are also washable so they last a long time since they are of good quality
      Nury Aguilar
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      Henry Perez ✔ Verified
      2026-01-02
      Excellent product quality, my husband loved these boxers, the fabric is very soft and comfortable, it was what I expected.
      Henry Perez
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      Jill M. ✔ Verified
      2026-01-03
      The comfort is insane
      Just got my boxers and wow – absolutely the best I’ve tried! The comfort is insane and the absorbency is next level. You can feel the quality right away. Total game changer.
      Jill M.
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      Laurent V. ✔ Verified
      2026-01-03
      Finally, a real solution
      No more discomfort, no more embarrassment. I feel confident again!
      Laurent V.
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      Larry T. ✔ Verified
      2026-01-06
      Passed my test
      Stood in the shower and let her rip — held the Urine well — the inner liner stayed a little damp for the minute or so I had them on afterwards — no Urine passed thru to the outside or around the edges of the liner while sitting in the sink for the next 5 minutes — they seem well made — the elastic held up after multiple washes and air drying cycles — I ordered the XXL size — I would prefer a bit longer inseam — I have a 42” waist — the pee pads I had been using for the past couple of years just weren’t enough any more — I think I will be more confident and comfortable in these — I’m glad I decided to give these a try
      Larry T.
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      Michael Anderson ✔ Verified
      2026-01-06
      Hold the leaks
      Surprisingly discreet, with good support for heavier flow. The cotton fabric is soft and breathable, making them suitable for everyday use. The reusable and washable feature makes them very practical and economical in the long run.
      Michael Anderson
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      Michael Anderson ✔ Verified
      2026-01-07
      David865
      This is one of the few incontinence men's boxer briefs out there that I have found to be true to size, comfortable and due to thinner padding, is very discreet. I'm not sure about you, but I have had it with the disposable shields; such a fuss as well as an ecological nightmare. These fit as well as any other pair of men's boxer briefs and look the same as well. I hate feeling like I'm wearing a diaper...these will never give you that feeling. These may be somewhat higher priced than some others, but the quality and durability will save you money in the long run. I will purchase again and I would also be happy to recommend them.
      Michael Anderson
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      Chris W. ✔ Verified
      2026-01-08
      better than tena or those depends
      My adult son kept asking if I was okay because I stopped going to his kids soccer games. Truth is, I was terrified of having an accident in public. These boxer briefs gave me my life back. Comfortable all day, no odor issues, and nobody knows I'm wearing protection. Finally feel like myself again instead of some broken old man.
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      Matt L. ✔ Verified
      2026-01-08
      fast dry and very comfortable
      The constant anxiety about wet spots was killing me at work. I'd check my pants after every meeting and make excuses to go to the bathroom every 30 minutes. With it , I forgot I even had a problem. Wore them during a 6 hour client presentation last week and stayed completely dry and confident. My professional life is back on track
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      Douglas ✔ Verified
      2026-01-08
      Best boxer brief I ever tried
      I wear these even if I do not have an incontinence problem. They do a great job; they are worth paying a little more so don't cheap out and miss this opportunity to get the best.
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      Sarah J. ✔ Verified
      2026-01-08
      fixed his anxiety
      Ordered these for my husband who has a prostrate problem and occasional leakage. The problems caused him embarrassment and anxiety. I had suggested something like this before but the ones I found for him to consider were not acceptable to him. I ordered these to surprise him and was surprised myself when he tried them on and said they were great. They feel like regular shorts and he says they are not too bulky. He feels more confident now. They were expensive but worth every penny for the confidence they have given back to
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      Luke M.D ✔ Verified
      2026-01-08
      Looks normal in the men's locker
      At my age, 78, I sometimes have to make a mad dash to the nearest restroom. This product catches the little mistake. It is not an adult diaper. It just eases one’s mind in an emergency. They’re very comfortable and look normal in the men’s locker room. Couldn’t be happier.
      S
      Steve H. ✔ Verified
      2026-01-08
      Good stuff
      Handles my incontinence without chafing or rolling down. Discreet delivery was appreciated too
      Steve H.
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      Tyler Q. ✔ Verified
      2026-01-09
      Very comfortable, no bulky feeling
      I'm on my feet all day managing retail and sometimes don't make it to the restroom in time. These feel like regular underwear but actually work when I need them. No one's the wiser.
      Tyler Q.
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      Ashley D. ✔ Verified
      2026-01-09
      Will buy them again
      Absorbs well He really liked them
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      Gary ✔ Verified
      2026-01-09
      Works like advertised
      The underwear works well. It’s weird, sometimes when I’m having drinks, I have a spasm blurting small drops of urine that shows a spot on your pants. Also, who wants to piss their pants ? Nobody ! This is an answer for your dignity. The internal pad absorbs and it’s not wet feel. Try one and experiment.
      Gary
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      Kevin ✔ Verified
      2026-01-09
      Helps you maintain your dignity
      Look and feel like normal under garments. These just have a secret. They absorb wel and was up to be good fitting and nice and soft. Money saving and helps to maintain dignity
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      Kane ✔ Verified
      2026-01-09
      We will stick to these for sure!
      The item arrived in record time! Thank you! The absorbent briefs were comfortable and as protective as advertised. My hubby tried other brands where he ended up adding extra pad protection. With these boxers the nine layer are enough on its own. We're ordering more and sticking with these.
      Kane
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      Anthony W. Hurst, Sr. ✔ Verified
      2026-01-10
      Really satisfied with these.
      54 years old, prostate cancer and recovering from a full proctectomy. If you have "leaks" - would recommend. They fit and wear nice. Not much difference than the everyday briefs I wear.
      Anthony W. Hurst, Sr.
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      Carol Roache ✔ Verified
      2026-01-10
      Great quality, soft, absorbent - wearing these without pads
      These are fantastic and work just as described
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      Michael Anderson ✔ Verified
      2026-01-10
      Nothing bulky
      Figured they'd be bulky like diapers but they're not. Fit under my jeans fine and don't make noise when I walk. Only wish they came in more colors.
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      John R. ✔ Verified
      2026-01-10
      Helps a lot, feels like normal underwear
      I'm a warehouse supervisor and can't always step away when nature calls. These boxers handle the occasional leak without anyone knowing. Finally feel like myself again at work.
      C
      Charles H ✔ Verified
      2026-01-10
      Very Useful Product
      Due to my age, I have occasional urine leaks. This underwear is practical and reusable.
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      Steven A ✔ Verified
      2026-01-10
      Ideal for Daily Use
      I have bladder problems and wear these daily. They are very comfortable.
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      Karen D ✔ Verified
      2026-01-11
      So Much More Comfortable
      My husband has weak bladder control because of age. I bought these for him and he feels much more comfortable now.
      Karen D
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